As a friend told me a couple weeks ago..."if the Navy gave frequent flyer miles Max would be maxed out." and it's true. Once again he flew back early...at least this time it wasn't on a helo and the wall didn't fall off mid flight.
I got a call from the general surgeon Doctor Friday morning as I was getting ready to go teach my Parent Toddler class. He called to tell me that results have already come back with something "suspicious". He definitely wants to proceed with a full biopsy and wanted me to go in Monday morning at 8am to talk about the what's, how's and when's.
This morning we dropped the kids off with our good friends Wayne and Susan. Our kids love going to their house, what a Blessing that family is to us. We decided it was best to do it that way so we could ask questions and concentrate on what was being said. Here it is...I'm laying it out. Please do not be offended if I have not called you directly. My Mom Dad and Brother are probably the only ones I have contacted via phone. It's easier to do it this way and refer friends here so I don't feel like a broken record repeating myself.
So what did they say Averi?:
"Preliminary" results...and I quote "preliminary" are leaning the surgeons towards Hodgkin's Lymphoma Cancer.
"He will have no fear of bad news; his heart is steadfast trusting in the Lord." -Psalm 112:7 I was working on my Bible study last night and realized His timing is perfect. The chapter I studied embedded "Do not be afraid" in my mind. As I sat in front of the two Doctors with my husband by my side I kept reminding myself of last nights study that ministered directly to my heart. "The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." -Deuteronomy 31:8
I got more blood drawn, more x-ray's and had to go to admissions office(sounds like I'm going back to school). Tomorrow morning I go in for a PET. If His timing wasn't so perfect and Max didn't turn on the television this morning while I was getting dressed I would have no clue what that was. Fortunately God has a plan. I saw a few minutes of a documentary on radioactivity and in it was some info on PET. Thursday I'm scheduled for surgery. They are going into the largest lymph node to remove some tissue for more testing. Those results will take a good week from Thursday's surgery to come back because they may have to be overnighted to Washington. Max's first question..."are you knocking her out?" "Oh, yes!" said the resident. The Doctor also recommended we send an AmCross message to the ship letting them know what is going on. We talked about where he was in his orders and made us aware that depending on what the next set of biopsy results show, if chemo is the treatment necessary he would not be going out on deployment and things would be changing.
No deployment? Boy, I sure know how to keep my husband behind. Don't I?
I will keep posting as I hear more. For now, all I ask is you keep me in your prayers as tons of things run through my mind.
I love each and every one of you!
10 comments:
Wow!! I wasn't expecting to hear this! Holy cow!! You must be so stressed out! I am grateful Max can be with you but what a hard time this is for you guys. You know I am here for you 110% and I hope you know you can call and I cry on the phone to me and yell or whatever and you know I will listen!! You re definently in our prayers and will keep you that way for a long time. Goodluck with Surgery on Thursday. We love you and know everything will be just fine:)
you are an AMAZING woman! I admire you so much with all you are going through you are keeping your head up high!! I am so sorry to know you are going through this but I do believe in miracles and I do believe the Lord has a plan! I am so sorry I havent emailed you back yet please know we are thinking of you and praying for not only you but for your family!! Get some oils , they do miraculous things themselves!! I am going to try to see if I still have your number in one of the emails if not if you get a few mins then email it to me! I am so impressed with your whole attitude about this averi , what an amazing woman you are and an awesome example to me you are as well as your kids!! Let me know if I can do ANYTHING for you!!
My dear friend I am so sorry!! I wish I could hug you. I am praying for you!!!! I love you dearly!!! I understand why you didn't call so don't worry about me.
Good luck with the surgery and i will be praying for you.
Averi,
I just read this. I'm not sure what to say other then you know what happened to me. I always looked at it as the best thing that ever happened to me.
You'll be in our prayers and..I'm sorry..I'll be here. I can't find any words at the moment.
Averi Let me just say if I haven't said this already!! You are one of my best friends who I can say anything to and you help me through everything that I have been going through in this pregnancy and with other things. Now it is my TURN to help YOU and your family out!!! So please let me know if you need anything. I will probably not call you anytime soon because I know you need to spend time with your hubby and kids and just rest up and everything but please know Iam here for you if you need me!! What an angel you are:)
Morgan told me before I read your blog and I immediately started praying. I know God has a plan and you will be in good hands. Know that I love you like my own daughter and I will be there for whatever you need. You will be in our constant prayers.
I love you!!! I am here for you always...but you know that. Keep your head up "kid." You are strong and this is just one of the many obstacles you have to get through. Piece of cake if you ask me...I mean come on...you're married to Max...This should be easy!!!! j/k He is wonderful and I am thankful to have someone there to take care of my Averi! I can't think of anyone better. Take care and you know how to reach me when you need me. Hugs to you my dear friend! Prayer for you always!
"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28
You're in my prayers too!
Averi & Max...Auntie just wanted you two to KNOW...I LOVE YOU !!! and....If you need me to I will be out there to help you during these times....I know theres gonna be alot of emotions and fears...but like you said Averi...God does work in mysterious ways....Stay strong in your Faith in the Lord as He will guide you through this time in your life...
Like I said...You need me to come there and help you Huney I'll be there...In A Heart Beat!!!
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